How to Have a Casual Fuck Friend (Tips and Advice) 


Kait Sanders

July 24, 2020

Fuck friend Rules

Having a fuck buddy is one of the most thrilling experiences you can have in life. It’s all about sex and what could be better than that? Now, if you’ve ever had a fuck friend you know that the best part about it is the freedom that comes with this relationship style. Of course, it’s easy to mess it all up if you don’t know how to keep it casual. 

If you don’t know how to keep your fuck friend relationship casual, you might just end up in a serious relationship. Even worse, there might be hurt feelings involved. Luckily you can avoid all of that by following this sage advice. Take a look at these tips for how to keep your fuck friend relationship casual. 


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Keep the cuddling to a minimum

Yes, I know cuddling is the natural progression after a good romp in the hay, but forget about it. Cuddling releases all of those “love” hormones– next thing you know, you’re down on one knee. Or, maybe your fuck buddy suddenly starts hinting at a relationship. Trust me on this one and skip the spooning. 


Avoid day time hangouts

Hey, I don’t knock a little afternoon delight, but when it comes to keeping it casual, night time is best. Nighttime hookups set the vibe that it’s all about sex. If you start meeting up during the day, you’ll probably be inclined to do daytime activities, like hiking and coffee dates. You’ll notice how very unsexy these activities are. In fact, they’re more like something a couple might do. Keep the booty calls as a nighttime activity and you’re good to go. 


Let them know what you’re looking for

Honestly, the best way to keep it casual is to simply let them know you don’t want a relationship. That way they can decide if that works for them. If they’re on the same page, it’s going to be a much better time for everybody involved. Of course, if you say you don’t want a relationship, you have to back that up. So, don’t start taking them out on fancy dates out of the blue. 


PDA is out of the question

I get it, you and your fuck buddy have serious sexual chemistry. That doesn’t mean you should be flaunting it all over town. If you start doing that, people are going to assume you’re in a relationship. If that happens, your fuck friend might get the same idea. You guys aren’t a couple, so don’t act like one when you’re out and about. 


Don’t delete your dating apps

Having a casual fucking buddy relationship also means you get to keep hooking up with other people. Don’t let those dating apps gather dust, keep swiping away. You’re perfectly free to continue hanging out with other people and that’s what makes a casual relationship so great. 


Practice safe sex

Hey, remember how I just said you can keep hooking up with other people? Well, that also means you have to be hypervigilant about safe sex. You should be wrapping it up every single time. Do you know what’s guaranteed to take a relationship from casual to serious, real quick? A baby or an STD. Yeah, you don’t want to go down that road, so play it safe. 


Keep it light and playful

Leave the deep conversations for your friends and family. With you’re fuck buddy, you don’t have to reveal your deepest fears and desires. Keep the conversation lighthearted and fun. If you start divulging your life dreams, you’re probably going to end up feeling pretty bonded to this person, and the goal is to keep it casual. 


No “relationship” activities

No dinner dates, no anniversaries and don’t even think about Valentine’s Day! All of those activities are what you do with your significant other. There’s no better way to confuse things than by saying you don’t want a relationship, but doing relationship-type activities. 


Set your boundaries

Don’t be afraid to set your boundaries and stick to them. If you don’t want to meet up with your fuck friend every weekend, that’s perfectly ok. If you don’t want to go to an event with them, that’s okay too. Just be sure to be clear about what you want and don’t want. And on the flip side of this coin, you should be respecting any boundaries your fuck buddy lays out as well. 


Stick to weekends

Once you start meeting up on weeknights, it’s a short step away from sleeping over and the next thing you know, you two are spending every moment together. That’s a recipe for getting serious. In my experience, it’s in your best interest to stick to weekends. And if you really want to keep it casual, try to keep it to every other weekend. Now, I know some of you have schedules that only allow for weekdays, but as a general rule, try not to hang out more than once a week. 


Don’t dedicate your time to them

If you find yourself crafting your weekend plans around your fuck friend, it may not be as casual as you think. Look, it’s perfectly fine to set a day and time to meet up, but if your weekend ends up revolving around this plan, we’ve got a problem. Go about your business, as usual, and make your normal plans. If both of you are free at some point, it’s easy to meet up. 


Be cool with them moving on

Well, as with any good thing in life, there will be a time when it comes to an end. And since the relationship is casual after all, you should expect that. You’re fuck friend might find that they want a serious relationship and move on, or maybe they lose interest in the whole thing. Whatever the reason may be, you have to be okay with things ending. 



Okay, so know you know what it takes to keep your fuck friend relationship casual. Remember, avoid relationship activities, keep your dating options open and let them know what you want, and don’t want. If you can follow this advice, your fuck friend experience will be that much better.

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